17 Facts You Never Know about Ladyboy Culture in Thailand

Thailand is known as the Land of Smiles, but it's also know as the Land of the Ladyboys! Compared to other countries, like the Philippines or Malaysia, Thailand has a long history and higher population of ladyboys in the world. As a matter of fact the word "ladyboy" is the English translation for "Kathoey", a Thai word for transgender women and effeminate gay men.

Read interesting things you don't know about Thailand ladyboys.

1. Ladyboy, Transgender person or the third gender - They are called Kathoey in Thailand

The term "transgender" is rarely used in Thailand. Instead, the common term is, "Kathoey" which was once used to define intersex people, human beings who were born with ambiguous genitalia. 

Kathoey have become entirely common in Thai society, like everyone else, they go about their daily affairs: shopping, meeting with friends, using public transport, visiting the temple.

Ladyboy, transgender or the third gender is rarely used in Thailand. 

Miss Tiffany's Show Pattaya 32 Finalist. Can you the different with real women?

Miss Tiffany's Show Pattaya 32 Finalist. Can you the different with real women?

2. Large ladyboy population in Thailand

Thailand beholds the highest rate of Transsexuals throughout the world. According to Sam Winter, the numbers differ from about 10,000 to (unofficial) 300,000. substantially above that estimated for transgender in most other parts of the world. Thai community creats a sound public opinion environment for those of a different sexual orientation. They can enjoy their freedom of expressing themselves.

3. History of Ladyboy in Thailand

The very first Thai ladyboy is said to present as early as the 14 centry. At that time, Thais started to identify waht is now known as ladyboy.

4. Thai Buddhism help to understand transsexuals in Thailand

First Buddhist scriptures also mention 3 genders: a man, a woman and a kathoey. So, religion officially allows for the third gender to exist. Buddhist teachings also hold that the circumstances we live today are the product of the ways in which we lived our previous lives. 

Another concept behind kathoey is the result of karma – in particular one was born kathoey as a consequence of some sexual misdemeanor in an earlier life or lives or that they failed to fulfill an expected role in the reproductive process, such as a man not caring for a woman who is pregnant by him.

Whatever the reason, it is important to note that the common belief says there is no escaping from the karmic consequences, everyone has been kathoey at once in previous lives and will be again in future ones, thus kathoey should be treated with compassion.

5. Big cities have wider acceptance

Kathoey acceptance in society depends on the area in which they live. In the bigger cities, it is more normalized to be kathoey. In more rural villages, treatment of kathoey is described as tolerance than acceptance.

6. Miss Tiffany's Universe

Miss Tiffany's Universe is a beauty pageant for Thai transgender women in Pattaya, Thailand. The contest is open to all transgender women who may or may not have gone through sex reassignment surgery. 

The Miss Tiffan'’s Universe contest held once a year is receiving more attention especially since it is broadcast live on Thai television with an average of 15 million viewers. The Miss Tiffany's Universe winner receives a trophy and crown, Honda Jazz, cash prizes, jewellery, and other gifts from sponsors.

See the contrast of winners of Miss Tiffany's Univers:

You can discover more interesting things and pictures of each winner here: Tiffany Cabaret Show in Pattaya

7. Lady Gaga gained her inspiration from Cabaret shows – Drug show in Thailand

Cabaret shows are popular and widespread in Thai culture. The Calypso in Bangkok is said to be where Lady Gaga gained a lot of her inspiration, and the Tiffany has been compared to the Miss Universe of kathoey culture. 

These cabaret shows include elaborate song and dance routines with elegant costuming. One might be tempted to compare these shows to the drag shows in the US, but in these shows the performers are not just taking on a female persona; many of them identify as women.

See more information about Calypso in Bangkok: Calypso Cabaret Show

8. They work as normal Thai people

The lifestyle of the kathoey varies as well. Mostly though, the kathoey live like other Thai people. They work as hair dressers, film makers, sex workers, waitresses, models, and other jobs that you would find any woman. 

They have romantic relationships and are allowed to marry. Kathoey, like other trans people, are just that. People.

9. Easy to see beautiful Kathoey in public media

Kathoeys are more visible and more accepted in Thai culture than transsexuals are in other countries in the world. Several popular Thai models, singers and movie stars are kathoeys, and Thai newspapers often print photographs of the winners of female and kathoey beauty contests side by side. 

The phenomenon is not restricted to urban areas; there are kathoeys in most villages, and kathoey beauty contests are commonly held as part of local fairs.

10. Varies "feminising" surgeries to choose from

Kathoey have easy access to hormones and surgery. Local chain drug stores can carry as many as 23 hormonal preparations, all available (without a doctor's note) over the shop counter. 

Many dress as women and undergo a wide range of  "feminising" medical procedures such as breast implants, hormones, silicone injections, or Adam's apple reductions. That's why a Kathoey is hard to distinguish.

11. Thai males tend to revere females

would any Thai man want to be a woman? We might here answer ‘yes’ more readily than for many other societies; Asian or otherwise. Thai women occupy a more advantageous position in Thai society than elsewhere in Asia. These last authors remark that Thai males tend to revere females, referring to them as the ‘peht mae’ (gender of mothers). 

Conversely, all things worthy of reverence are conceived of as feminine; for example a great river is called mae-nam (‘mother-water’). Traditionally, a man’s family has paid a bride price upon a son marrying, while property inheritance has traditionally been through the daughter.

 It may be that the changing nature of womanhood has helped kathoey in efforts to be accepted as female.

12. Developmental pathways for who want to be a kathoey

Once a young boy has become discontented about his gender identity, he finds that modern Thai society opens up for him a clear developmental path. On one hand media personalities – TG actresses, singers, models, beauty queens - provide role models to aim for. 

Nearer at hand an older peer or often a fellow student, may provide first social contact with a kathoey. 

These older role models can provide the young kathoey with important information; initially regarding hormones, clothes, make-up, beauty contests etc, and perhaps later on extending to information about employment and surgery.

13. "kathoey career"

A word here about economics. A nose operation can cost from US$240. Sex reassignment surgery can cost from US$950. To save even that money one needs a job while salaries are low in Thailand. 

The costs of surgery therefore act to draw kathoey to the cabarets and bars for work. The cabarets are often unobjectionable spectacles of dance, music and costume for tourists. While the salaries are small much more might can be earned from tips given by tourists taking photos. 

The bars, on the other hand, provide a vehicle for prostitution. Both provide a way of earning the kind of money that make surgery possible. Also with hope of meeting a Westerner who might take her to his country, where, apart from anything else, she might be able to achieve legal status as a female and marry. That's the ‘kathoey career’ for most Kathoey.

14. Beautiful soldiers

Like many countries, Thailand’s military has conscription by way of a lottery. In draft day, all men over 21 – even those who no longer consider themselves to be male – are required to attend the conscription lottery once. In practice, kathoey ladyboys are almost always exempted from military service – but they are still required to attend the lottery. 

Thai law forbids people changing their gender on national identification documents, so all trans women remain officially recognised as male. These annual scenes of beautifully dressed women sitting among crowds of more conventionally male-looking recruits draws many eyes.

15. Must a kathoey undergo hormone therapies or transgender surgeries?

Today, the term kathoey is used to cover a broad spectrum of identities. This ranges from gay men that are more effeminate and may take on a persona in performance, not unlike drag shows in the US, to trans women. 

It is important to note that identifying as kathoey, like other trans identities, is not dependent on the state of the body. Some kathoey undergo hormone therapies and gender confirmation surgeries, others do not.

16. Considered as men in law

As far as the Thai government is concerned, male to female transsexuals are legally men. Transsexuals cannot legally change their gender on their ID cards. 

Transsexuals’ birth gender must remain the same on their passports as well, a fact which can lead to confusion and unwanted scrutiny at border crossings and immigration checkpoints. 

Thailand also prohibits same sex marriage, meaning that when the partner of a transsexual dies, the deceased's family receives any and all assets.

17. Ladyboy Bars

Of course, there are Calypso Cabaret and Tiffany's Show Pattaya, but if you don't want a big show and the seedy underbelly of ladyboy beckons, ladyboy bars is your best bet.

At Nana Plaza in Bangkok or Pattaya Walking Street, you can find some real ladyboy bars. There are things, or rather, for everyone – from higher, more sports bar staff to Japanese female student type pole dancers.

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Where To Visit In Thailand

Thailand has world-famous attractions, which have been recorded on television and are set in several Hollywood works, from Chiang Mai in northern Thailand to the lush southern province of Krabi. You will be attracted, or even shocked, by the original beauty of Thailand. Make your Thailand all inclusive tour now

1 The Grand Palace & Wat Prakeaw

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This is a must see sight in BangkokThe Grand Palace is without a doubt the city most remarkable landmark. Built 1782, it was for 150 years, the home of the Thai King, the Royal court and the seat of government. The Grand Palace takes away your breath with its astounding architecture and precise detail. In modern times, the complex continues to be the spiritual heart of the Thai Kingdom; therefore, visitors are required to dress politely while visiting.

2 Phang Nga Bay

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Phang Nga Bay is located northeast of Phuket, and features one of the most distinct sites in the world. Phang Nga Bay has a unique limestone cliff that extends vertically out of the emerald green water.  A leisurely day trip cruising through the dramatic limestone islands, occasionally stopping to enjoy quiet beaches, is far more rewarding than the standard bus-boat tour.

3 Similan Islands

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Similan Islands feature a group of rocks and island that is located about 90 minutes by speedboat off the coast of Phang NyaSimilan Islands is an area largely undeveloped and was declared a Marine National Park in 1982. Similan which mean “nine” in Malay refers to the nine islands in the group. Due to its highly exceptional underwater visibility, the water offers an incredible place for diving Derived from the Malay term 'Sembilan', meaning 'nine', Similan refers to the nine main islands in the group.

4 Floating Markets

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Bangkok's colorful floating markets are familiar to a lot of tourists because of its pictures, mostly present in tourist guide and travel books. The floating market features boats packed with tropical fruits and vegetables, freshly squeezed juice and local food cooked on floating restaurants located on the boat.  

5 Phi Phi Islands

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Phi Phi Island is some of the loveliest in the South Ocean. About 45 minutes of speedboats from Phuket Island, it offers a classic beach with incredible rock formation and water full of rich aquatic life. There are two islands Phi Phi Don and Phi Phi Leh. Phi Phi Don are the largest inhabited islands, attracting tourists to stay on its incredible coast.

6 Doi Suthep

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Doi Suthep is a constant part of life in Chiang Mai. The mountain overlooks the city which provides an amazing view of the surrounding countryside and Chiang Mai. Doi Suthep is home to Wat Prathat Doi Suthep Temple as well as Bhubing Palace; and also houses of the loved symbols in Thailand.

7 Railay Beach

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Railay is one of the most sought after beaches in Thailand. It offers a tranquil and serene environment with its gorgeous white sand beaches, incredible viewpoints, caves and a hidden lagoon within the cliffs. This is a paradise, with no roads and hassle; an ideal getaway for adventure and cool night outs.

8 Ayutthaya

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Ayutthaya used to be a prosperous trade and political capital until it was ravaged and plundered by the Burmese army. Ayutthaya was a flourishing center for regional trade and a burgeoning metropolis where art and culture merged. Today, the temple and ruins of Ayutthaya serve as a reminder of the past glory of Siam, as well as a haunting memory of one of the darkest times in Thai history.

You might like to book: Ayutthaya tour packages

9  Wat Arun (Temple of Dawn)

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Wat Arun is located on the west bank of the Chao Phraya River. The temple was renovated and named by King Taksin who gave it "Temple of Dawn" after fleeing from Ayutthaya a place besieged by Burmese army at the time. During the reign of King Taksin, the Temple of Dawn was home to the Emerald Buddha and another important Buddha image, the Phra Bang after their removal from Vientiane.

10 Khao Yai National Park

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Khao Yai national park is a UNESCO World Heritage Site and the second largest national parks in Thailand. It encompasses four provinces, Saraburi in the West, Nakhon Nayok in the East,  Nakhon Ratchasima in the North and Prachinburi in the South. The highest peak is at Khao Rom and it is approximately 1,351 meters above sea level. The national park offers a year-round getaway destination, situated about 3 hours outside Bangkok. It houses a variety of wildlife with 320 species of birds, 67 species of mammals and thousands of different types of plants.

Haad Puk Tian

An offbeat beach in Phetchaburi Province, Haad Puk Tian has golden sands lapped by bluey-eco-friendly waters. The seaside views are lovely, the big literary statues that us dot the shore really increase the appeal. Figures in one of Thailand’s most well-known epic poems, Phra Apia Mani sit across the sands, within the water, as well as on rocks.

Haad Chao Samran enjoys considerable recognition among Thais, so visit on the week day if you are following a quiet day through the ocean. A much better beach than Haad Puk Tian, this still remains an average stretch of sand so we were amazed at just the number of resorts are here, all deserted on weekdays. The sand runs up to and including rocky beach break and a number of rocky breakwaters safeguard against erosion some 100 metres out. Around August you are able to arrange a ship for five,000 baht to visit searching for Bryde’s whales.

Nearest Airports to Puk Tian

Nobody likes holding out in the airport terminal. But it is worthwhile whenever you consider the trip that's awaiting you! Based 20 miles (32 km) south of Puk Tian, Hua Hin Worldwide Airport terminal (HHQ) is easily the most convenient terminal.

Puk Tian Accommodation

Start your holiday with an opulent note by sliding between your smooth sheets in the Baan Caruso (33/22 Lamlaung Resort Moo 3, T.Lampakbea). Alternatively, the Rublom Resort (278 Moo 2 T.Haad Chao Samran) is a superb place your money can buy-conscious traveller to invest their nights.

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